One glance around a crowded mall, a church congregation or a busy airport will prove that fathers come in all shapes, sizes, moods, colors and income levels, not to mention many ages. Therefore, today’s congratulatory editorial addresses a target-rich environment: 70.1 million American fathers, according to Census Bureau News.Stereotyping this group by any means other than their possession of progeny would be a fool’s errand. In fact, the deep thinker who over-analyzes Father’s Day might even ask this strange question: If being a father is so special on this particular day, shouldn’t the ultimate objects of our affection be our grandfathers, those who boast the added distinction of being the fathers of our fathers?
See how confusing this can get? Better to keep it simple. So here’s a tip of The Columbian’s hat to fathers, and especially to those who value their paternal role more than their jobs, their friends, their hobbies or even their remote controls. (On that last one, we’ll concede that today allows fathers expanded access to channel changers.)
When praising fathers, the best way to keep it simple is to focus on facts and eschew assumptions. For example, it would be a mistake to assume that Father’s Day is rooted deeply in our nation’s history. To the contrary, it wasn’t until 1966 that President Lyndon Johnson designated the third Sunday in June as Father’s Day. And it wasn’t until 1972 that President Richard Nixon signed the law that made it permanent. (That LBJ-Nixon reference reminds us to be careful about assigning political affiliation to any one father or collection of fathers. Obviously, this is a bipartisan brotherhood.)
Nostalgic traditionalists yearn to categorize fathers using time-worn standards. That, too, is a mistake. Sorry, fans of “Father Knows Best,” but of those 70.1 million American fathers, only 24.7 million belonged to married-couple families with children younger than 18, as of 2011.