LOS ANGELES — Omar Akersim prays regularly and observes the dawn-to-dusk Ramadan fast. He is also openly gay.
Akersim, 26, is part of a small but growing number of American Muslims challenging the long-standing interpretations of Islam that defined their parents’ world. They believe that one can be gay and Muslim, that the sexes can pray shoulder-to-shoulder, that females can preach and that Muslim women can marry outside the faith — and they quote the Quran to back them up.
The shift comes as young American Muslims reshape the faith they grew up with to fit their complex, dual identity, with one foot in the world of their parents’ immigrant beliefs and one foot in the ever-shifting culture of America. The result has been a growing internal dialogue about what it means to be Muslim, as well as a scholarly effort to re-examine the Quran for new interpretations that challenge rules that had seemed set in stone.
“Islam in America is being forced to kind of change and to reevaluate its positions on things like homosexuality because of how we’re moving forward culturally as a nation. It’s striving to make itself seen and known in the cultural fabric and to do that, it does have to evolve,” said Akersim, who leads a Los Angeles-based support group for gay Muslims. “Ten or 15 years ago, this would have been impossible.”
The shift doesn’t end with breaking obvious taboos, either. Young American Muslims are making forays into fashion and music (Islamic punk rock, anyone?), and stirring things up with unorthodox takes on staples of American pop culture. A recent controversial YouTube video, for example, shows Muslim hipsters — or “Mipsterz” — skateboarding in head scarves and skinny jeans as Jay-Z’s “Somewhere in America” blasts in the background.
Nearly 40 percent of the estimated 2.75 million Muslims in the U.S. are American-born and the number is growing, with the Muslim population skewing younger than the U.S. population at large, according to a 2011 Pew Research Center survey.
Advocates for a more tolerant Islam say the constraints on interfaith marriage and homosexuality aren’t in the Quran, but are based on conservative interpretations of Islamic law that have no place in the U.S. In many Muslim countries, there are histories of unsegregated prayers and interfaith marriage.
As a result, there’s a new emphasis on meeting for prayer and socializing in neutral spaces, such as community centers, instead of mosques, and on universal inclusion.
“Some of them still want a mosque, they still want to belong and to pray and others are shifting and they are very comfortable being nonreligious,” Haddad said.
In Los Angeles, Muslims for Progressive Values has a female imam who performs same-sex and interfaith marriages, support groups for gay Muslims and a worship style in which women give sermons and men and women pray together. The group has chapters in major U.S. cities and at least six countries and last year was recognized by the United Nations as an official nongovernmental organization.
Founder Ani Zonneveld, a singer and songwriter of Malaysian descent, started the group in 2007 after she recorded some Islamic pop music that generated a backlash because it featured a Muslim woman singing.
“For us, the interpretation of Islam is egalitarian values — and by egalitarian it’s not just words that we speak. It’s practice,” she said. “It’s freedom of religion and from religion, too.”
Akersim, the gay Muslim, knows first-hand how hard this shift will be. Last year, he fled his parents’ home in the middle of the night after they called him at work and demanded to know when he was going to get married. He is in touch with his mother, but hasn’t spoken to his father in a year and a half.
Now, he avoids mosques but prays privately. He has no regrets about coming out, he said.
“All these struggles that I’ve had to endure have only brought me closer to God,” Akersim said. “Within that storm, I feel like I’ve been able to persevere because of my faith, because of this strength from God.”