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Letter: We’ve become nation of whiners

The Columbian
Published: December 18, 2014, 4:00pm

Normally, I write only about serious stuff, but Kay and Jim Postma’s Dec. 13 letter “Choose words wisely to not offend” rang loudly the bell at the top of my personal barfometer. Is it really necessary to conjure up new things to be offended by?

The following illustrates the fallacy of “being offended.”

A comedian tells a story.

One-third of his audience think it is the funniest thing they ever heard.

Another third think it is the most offensive thing they ever heard and leave in disgust.

The last third look at around in bewilderment and ask “Huh?”

Same story, with three different responses.

Obviously, the story was not “The Cause” of “The Offence.”

The one-third who left chose to be offended, just as the third who laughed chose to be amused.

We, not others, are responsible for our responses.

Sixty-five years ago, many Europeans regarded us as saviors. Later, due to the boorish conduct of some tourists, we became “ugly Americans.” Today we are seen as a nation of whiners. Thanks guys, I really appreciate that.

Does anyone remember the mantra once told to children who complained about something said to them? “Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you.”

Richard Willerton

Vancouver

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