Many people have love-hate relationships with their mother-in-laws. Mine was like a mother to me. Although she passed 10 years ago, I think of Tess often.
I wondered when we first met if it would be this way, though.
It happened when Tom, my boyfriend and the youngest of his siblings (all boys), went home for his spring break. We were both students at the University of Oregon. We had dated for three months, and he wanted to introduce me to his parents.
When we arrived, Tess greeted us. After catching up with Tom, she gave me a tour of the house. Then she showed me the room where I’d sleep during our visit. Suddenly during our conversation, she said, “Every time one of my boys brings home a girl, they get married.”
I smiled but didn’t know what to say. I wondered whether she was giving me advice or warning me. The other brothers, much older than Tom, all had stable marriages and one had two children. I filed her comment as a mental note.