PeaceHealth Southwest Medical Center Hope Bereavement Services
• Where: 5400 MacArthur Blvd., Vancouver.
• Contact: 360-696-5120.
• Serves: Clark, Skamania and Cowlitz counties.
• Cost: Free.
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Counselors at PeaceHealth Southwest’s bereavement center offered support to students at Reynolds High School in Troutdale, Ore., after a boy shot and killed another student before killing himself last year. They also helped out local police officers grappling with the death of Clark County sheriff’s Sgt. Brad Crawford, who was killed by a fleeing driver in 2004.
Jaci Thomas’ husband died unexpectedly of a heart attack at age 35 on Father’s Day, just before their 12th wedding anniversary. When she returned home from the hospital early in the morning, hours after his death, her three children were still asleep. They didn’t know yet their dad was gone.
“It was so intense, so all-encompassing,” Thomas said. “There’s really no relief. It’s been five years, and I just miss him every day. … That’s the price you pay when you have a good relationship — the deep pain.”
The 41-year-old stay-at-home mom said she was unsure of her next step, so she called a counselor she knew. First, the counselor told her that her children would grieve differently than she would. They may be sad and then go play for a while, and that’s completely normal. Next, the counselor advised Thomas to sign up as soon as possible for Stepping Stones, a family grief support group at PeaceHealth Southwest Medical Center’s bereavement center.