It is, undoubtedly, the most somber of holidays. A day for reflection. A day of remembrance. A day of acknowledging that we are here because they are not.
Memorial Day, which developed out of ceremonies commemorating those who died during the Civil War, honors those who perished in military service of the United States. It is neither more nor less significant than Veterans Day, which is observed in November and recognizes all those who have served in the military. But it is more somber. As James A. Garfield, then a congressman and future president of the United States, said at an early Memorial Day observance in 1868 at Arlington National Cemetery, “If silence is ever golden, it must be beside the graves of 15,000 men, whose lives were more significant than speech, and whose death was a poem the music of which can never be sung.”
All told, the Civil War claimed the lives of 625,000 soldiers — an estimated 365,000 on the Union side and another 260,000 for the Confederates, according to “The Oxford Companion to American Military History.” Considering that the U.S. population was about 31.4 million at the time, the toll was staggering, yet the benefits incalculable. The Civil War preserved the union that grew into the world’s most powerful nation during the 20th century, and it was at the dedication of Soldiers’ National Cemetery in Gettysburg, Pa., that Abraham Lincoln famously spoke of a resolve that “government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.”
In World War I, a total of 116,516 Americans were killed, and World War II brought the death of 405,399 service members. Devastating costs — and yet the world was saved from despots and tyrants. Americans later fought — and died — bravely in Korea and Vietnam, and continue to do so today in Iraq and Afghanistan. Why? Because their country said they were needed, and they are men and women who answer the call of duty.