The horrific killing spree in Santa Barbara, Calif., and the almost immediate revelation that the killer was driven by rage at perceived rejection by women, generated an intense discussion of misogyny and gender violence — first in the social media, then in editorial commentary. The passion is understandable and commendable. But the tenor of this discussion can only lead to a more toxic climate between the sexes.
Elliot Rodger, the 22-year-old whose murderous rampage on May 24 left six people dead and more than a dozen injured before it ended in suicide, has been made into a symbol not only for male violence toward women, but also for other problems large and small — from sexual harassment to workplace discrimination and sexist depictions of women in popular culture.
Indeed, Rodger’s YouTube videos and his lengthy manifesto/life story are rife with misogyny, culminating in the conclusion that women are “beasts” with inferior minds who cannot be allowed to make their own sexual choices. But woman-hating was only a part of his twisted worldview, which included a general hatred of humanity and particularly of romantically and sexually successful men. His sick Internet fantasies included the invention of a virus that would eliminate all males except for himself so that he would have his pick of beautiful women and enjoy vengeance on his male rivals.
In reality, four of the six people Rodger killed were male: His three housemates and a random shooting victim in a deli. His manifesto reveals that he also planned to kill his younger brother, whom he could not forgive for losing his virginity.